It's not who...it's when...

But I don't think I will.
You see, I don't want a fling.

I want the real deal.

Forget about the real deal.
You don't find it, it finds you.

What does that mean?
I don't know what that means.

It means that you get to a certain age
and then you're ready.

You know, you're ready for kids
or a commitment or, you know...

You know what I mean?

And the person that you're with then,
they become the one.

So you're saying it's not who, but it's when.

- Definitely Maybe


I agree, it's all about timing in life.

A lot of people come in and go in our lives.

My grandma has always told me, "When you know, you'll know. You'll feel it. It just feels natural...feels right."

It's about when.

The problem many women have is that we're so focused on trying to make every who we meet equal the when.

I may be young, but I've realized in my experiences so far that it's best to just enjoy every moment.

If you get that feeling like my grandma refers to, then your when has found you and you've found your who...."the one."