The other woman.
October 2009-March 2010 were the worst 6 months of my life. It was pure hell. The life I have always dreamt of and thought was perfect quickly fell apart before my eyes.
I thought I had met, fell in love, married and was going to spend the rest of my life with my Mr. Right. Lies, betrayal, and distance destroyed our marriage. I know it takes two people. I honestly feel as if I could have done more, just as he could have.
We reached a point in our relationship where we were going through the motions. Instead of trying to save our marriage and seek couples counseling, he gave up, moved on and refused.
The sight of her and him together was hell. It's not like seeing an ex-boyfriend or an ex-girlfriend after a break-up, because this was someone you said vows with in front of God to love, cherish, until death do you part. You vowed to be together through sickness and health....to be faithful.
"I didn't do anything wrong," she said.
She knew we were married and had even met me.
My heart was broken. I was devastated. She didn't care that I was sobbing on the other end of the phone. How could someone do this to another person? Why would someone cause someone this much pain and feel nothing?
I will never understand. Him....or her.
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. [Hebrews 13:4]
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