Love, Heels and Little Black Dresses

Saturday, February 6, 2010

I love...

February is the month of love, so here are a few things I love....

1. my family
2. my friends
3. my students
4. music
5. dancing
6. singing
7. reading
8. eating
9. a good glass of wine
10. writing
11. traveling
12. blogging
13. meeting new people
14. learning new things
15. working out
16. movies
17. the water
18. the beach
19. boating
20. shopping

21. high heels

22. kissing in the rain

23. autumn days in Michigan

24. laughing

25. cowboy boots

26. love

27. the good Lord above

Friday, February 5, 2010

Hot & Cold

Ugh! Men are so hot & cold sometimes.

It's annoying.

I know women can be too.

Make up your mind.

Forget the games.

Perfect song/video for this topic....

Katy Perry - New Music - More Music Videos

How to Lose a Guy (or Girl) in 10 Days

No woman wakes up saying, "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!"

Most women want romance.

Not the dating games.

Some like the chase, but...the whole "playing hard to get thing" gets really old...fast.

A woman wants to feel wanted...not like she's one of many on your list.

I watch girl friends (and guys) go crazy while dating.

Anxiously waiting for that call or for that person to finally hold their hand around friends.

This is why dating sucks.

It's too much of a game.

Fear of rejection and coming on too strong keeps us from being honest.

Guys, I'll tell you this...

If she's still saying yes to going out with you...she likes you.

She's interested.

Forget trying to play hard to get.

On the flip side....

Don't be obsessive.

Don't text her a dozen times before noon (unless she's cool with that).

If you've ever seen the movie, "How to Lose a Guy in 10 days"...it's the same concept for women.

You can end up losing a guy (or girl) by playing hard to get for too long or by being too obsessive.

So...how do you find a balance?

Good question.

If you figure it out, please share your secret.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Girl friends are the best

Some of my closest/best girl friends....such fabulous women.
I love them.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

"The Station"

"The Station" is a great piece written by Robert J. Hastings.

It was interesting where I first read this.

It has really made me stop and evaluate my life and how I'm living it.

I hope it makes you stop and think too.

" "Yes, when we reach the Station, that will be it!" we promise ourselves. "When we're eighteen. . . win that promotion. . . put the last kid through college. . . buy that 450SL Mercedes-Benz. . . have a nest egg for retirement!" From that day on we will all live happily ever after."

Enjoy the full piece here: http://robertjhastings.net/