Simple pleasures (in no particular order)....
* smiles from my niece, Ella
* a good hug
* holding hands with someone you love
* a letter from an old friend
* getting my hair done
* kissing in the rain
* back massages
* laughing uncontrollably with my brothers
* time with my mama - shopping, phone dates, and our walks
* receiving flowers for no reason
* finding a good sale
* girls night
* taking pictures
* my grandma's food
* rollerskating with my dad
* getting lost in a good book
* coffee with friends
* snuggling with my pup
* a good song on the radio
* the beach
* passionate kisses
* the feeling after a good workout
* walking barefoot
* slow dancing wherever, whenever with the one you love
* oreos and milk
* hearing those 3 special little words: I love you
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
The "right" decisions...
How do we know if we're making the right decisions in life?
I realize God has a plan for all of us, but couldn't He at least provide us with the cliff notes or at least a brief synopsis?
That would be really helpful.
There are times when I am so lost.
From arguments and break-ups to new opportunities and big moves, how do we know which path to take? What decisions to make?
There are times when I could use a little direction from the good Lord above.
I pray that He guides me to where I'm supposed to be.
I realize we all make mistakes and that's part of the learning process, but I wish I could just skip over all of that stuff and just get it right the first time around.
I know some of us just want things to fall into place, but then our life stories wouldn't as interesting, right?
I realize God has a plan for all of us, but couldn't He at least provide us with the cliff notes or at least a brief synopsis?
That would be really helpful.
There are times when I am so lost.
From arguments and break-ups to new opportunities and big moves, how do we know which path to take? What decisions to make?
There are times when I could use a little direction from the good Lord above.
I pray that He guides me to where I'm supposed to be.
I realize we all make mistakes and that's part of the learning process, but I wish I could just skip over all of that stuff and just get it right the first time around.
I know some of us just want things to fall into place, but then our life stories wouldn't as interesting, right?
The Soloist
"I've learned the dignity of being loyal to something you believe in. Of holding onto it. Above all else, of believing, without question, that it will carry you home." - The Soloist
I've never actually seen this movie, but I like this quote."The Soloist"....that's what I feel like these days.
I'm flying solo and I'm OK with that.
There are still days when I wake up and can't believe this is my life.
I can't believe he's gone.
I'm at peace with everything now though.
It's for the best.
Things happen in life for a reason.
Every experience is a lesson learned.
Forgiveness is key..I'm still working on that.
My dreams are important to me...I still believe in true love and marriage...with the right person.
Monday, March 1, 2010
Turn Ons, Turn Offs
Let's face it. When entering the treacherous world of dating someone new, we need all the help we can get! Getting to know someone on an intimate level can be scary, mysterious, and baffling. With a little help from the planets, however, you can avoid the pitfalls and cut right to the good stuff.
Knowing the Sun Sign of your new crush can help you lure them into your arms and prevent you from sending him or her running for the hills. By heeding the stars' superb courtship and dating advice, you can be sure your next date will turn into putty in your hands. Check the Sign of your current sweetheart or latest infatuation and get ready for the temperatures to rise between you.
Pisces (me) :
Warm up your Pisces with a good foot rub. Be sure to go all-out with scented massage oil to really do it up right. Pisces are a sensitive breed who need to feel emotionally safe before they can feel intimately safe. Check in with your Fish regularly to see how they are feeling. Your Pisces may be swimming in deep waters, and may not reveal things until you ask.
Read more here: http://astrocenter.astrology.msn.com/msn/TurnOnsTurnOffs_Article.aspx
Knowing the Sun Sign of your new crush can help you lure them into your arms and prevent you from sending him or her running for the hills. By heeding the stars' superb courtship and dating advice, you can be sure your next date will turn into putty in your hands. Check the Sign of your current sweetheart or latest infatuation and get ready for the temperatures to rise between you.
Pisces (me) :
Warm up your Pisces with a good foot rub. Be sure to go all-out with scented massage oil to really do it up right. Pisces are a sensitive breed who need to feel emotionally safe before they can feel intimately safe. Check in with your Fish regularly to see how they are feeling. Your Pisces may be swimming in deep waters, and may not reveal things until you ask.
Read more here: http://astrocenter.astrology.msn.com/msn/TurnOnsTurnOffs_Article.aspx
Friday, February 26, 2010
What's in a name?
It is a pain being a woman sometimes.
For instance...changing your last name when you get married.
I am going through the process of changing my name back to my maiden name.
What a hassle?!
- Social Security card
- drivers license
- passport
- credit cards
- debit cards
- checks
- email
- bills
- business cards
- all things work-related
I feel like I am jumping through hoops.
It was such a big to do the first time...and now I have to do it all over again.
And when I say I'm changing my last name, the person behind the desk automatically assumes it's because I've gotten married.
When I say it's because of divorce, I get such a pitiful look from them.
Why is it so important that the woman change her last name when she gets married?
http://marriage.suite101.com/article.cfm/should_you_change_your_last_name
For instance...changing your last name when you get married.
I am going through the process of changing my name back to my maiden name.
What a hassle?!
- Social Security card
- drivers license
- passport
- credit cards
- debit cards
- checks
- bills
- business cards
- all things work-related
I feel like I am jumping through hoops.
It was such a big to do the first time...and now I have to do it all over again.
And when I say I'm changing my last name, the person behind the desk automatically assumes it's because I've gotten married.
When I say it's because of divorce, I get such a pitiful look from them.
Why is it so important that the woman change her last name when she gets married?
http://marriage.suite101.com/article.cfm/should_you_change_your_last_name
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Young Fearless Love
I think it's interesting that young people are so open to love.
They are fearless.
A few years ago, I found a box full of old notes from boyfriends from when I was a teenager.
This was obviously before texting.
Reading those notes made me realize how men change as they get older.
As men age, the romantic side of them slowly disappears or is barely there anymore (this might not be the case with all men).
I have come to the conclusion that men become afraid of love as they get older.
I'm not sure why.
Maybe because of heart ache, disappointment, guilt or failed relationships.
Some men are emotionless...showing little to no affection.
As women get older, the search for a fairytale love and romance doesn't go away.
The things these teenage boys wrote were beautiful...
like something from a movie...
almost poetic....
Maybe as teenagers, we have the "Romeo & Juliet" mentality when it comes to love.
It's those simple words that can prove to be so beautiful.
Like "I miss you" or "I love you".
Some women like to be wooed with sweet loving words.
Obviously, the way to any man or woman's heart is going to be different, but some form of romance never fails.
Some might say teenagers don't know anything about true love...
they're careless...
it's just "puppy love"...
Maybe that's true.
They don't know much about love yet, but they go into relationships fearless and open to the possibilities of love.
As adults, we shy away and are guarded...we sometimes miss those opportunities.
Today's "love letters" are in the form of text messages and emails.
When was the last time a woman received a poem or a real love letter?
I think we, as adults, should take a lesson from teenagers and be more open to love.
Stop guarding your heart and just go with it.
Allow love to happen, rather than analyzing every little thing the other person says or does.
They are fearless.
A few years ago, I found a box full of old notes from boyfriends from when I was a teenager.
This was obviously before texting.
Reading those notes made me realize how men change as they get older.
As men age, the romantic side of them slowly disappears or is barely there anymore (this might not be the case with all men).
I have come to the conclusion that men become afraid of love as they get older.
I'm not sure why.
Maybe because of heart ache, disappointment, guilt or failed relationships.
Some men are emotionless...showing little to no affection.
As women get older, the search for a fairytale love and romance doesn't go away.
The things these teenage boys wrote were beautiful...
like something from a movie...
almost poetic....
Maybe as teenagers, we have the "Romeo & Juliet" mentality when it comes to love.
It's those simple words that can prove to be so beautiful.
Like "I miss you" or "I love you".
Some women like to be wooed with sweet loving words.
Obviously, the way to any man or woman's heart is going to be different, but some form of romance never fails.
Some might say teenagers don't know anything about true love...
they're careless...
it's just "puppy love"...
Maybe that's true.
They don't know much about love yet, but they go into relationships fearless and open to the possibilities of love.
As adults, we shy away and are guarded...we sometimes miss those opportunities.
Today's "love letters" are in the form of text messages and emails.
When was the last time a woman received a poem or a real love letter?
I think we, as adults, should take a lesson from teenagers and be more open to love.
Stop guarding your heart and just go with it.
Allow love to happen, rather than analyzing every little thing the other person says or does.
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